RelationShip Advice and Tips
I thought I had a big problem of how to make friends. You see, two of my brother and sister were increasingly socialites. Each has dozens on dozens of friends. It was literally not a single day where they either have friends at home, or go to the houses of their friends. I, on the other hand, is rather a loan until the age of 16 years. Making friends has never been easy for me and my sisters laugh at me a lot. One day, I decided I wanted to learn to make more friends.
Learning to make friends is not as easy as it's May. Of course, for some people, it was not easy. You know who I'm talking about - the socialites who seem to stem seamlessly one group to another, without ever worrying about the same. They are able to say the right things to get people interested in them, make plans to consolidate their ties of friendship and create opportunities and events to strengthen their social circles. In my case, learn to make a friend was a long and difficult process. I had a few friends - make no mistake - but only a few. My best friend is also a kind of lonely, and when we hold together, we would never have someone else with us.
I tried all kinds of techniques for how to make friends. I tried to make friends on the Internet, using Internet chat rooms. I tried to make friends at school. I even joined a few social groups on the side. Nothing worked until I realize the source of my problem: low self-esteem. I do not think I deserve to be other people friendship. I felt inferior to them all the time, and worried at every turn. Correction of my lack of self-esteem is the key to learning to make friends! Once I had this down, everything was easier. It was a long and complex process, but it is certainly worthwhile! Now I can find people to spend time with almost every day of the week. It makes me much happier to have an active social life, and I very much value the friendships I have. In all, learn to make friends is worth!
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Thursday, July 31, 2008
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